Over the Colourful weekend Lilac called yest & she pours out abt some unhappiness with her coll. She was upset that C.M & E.C commented that she has drifted apart from them. I said there must be something that causes them to have such comments. She said she seems to get closer to A.P recently. She has talk lesser and the no. of times having lunch tog has cut down too. I told her try talking to them in order to make them understand. There are sure to be misunderstanding. She said she doesn’t feel like talking to them. I advise her that no point doing that because after all still colls and not a child anymore.. (sounded like Pri sch). Colls you have to face each other ev’day, its not like friends, at least you can choose not to meet up. C.M msn me abt this thingy too. But I told her its good to thrash things out. But E.C said she doesn’t wana initiate as Lilac is bad-mouthing abt her to me. I told her that’s not bad mouth. She is just pouring out to me abt things that upset her. Who doesn’t complain abt each other? If she has a choice, she would have confronted. But she chose to swallow it & simply told someone (me) abt it. But she still treats you as frd. I even told E.C to reflect on herself has she ever said anything bad abt Lilac? Infact you did! Does that mean you are also doing the same thing (bad mouth)? Both in mid 30s, and mothers.. still have time for such things.. I always say:’ you can pour out to someone, write it somewhere eg blog / diary or msn someone abt the unhappiness, but always rmbr, forget abt the unhappiness. Once you bottom up, means to say it’s a new start. Don’t bear grudges after all still coll / friends aren’t it.” After much drilling, both have decided to thrash. & I was glad to hear that both have patched things. Phew… So high school…
Last sat daring & I checked into fairmont hotel (complimentary). The room (1120) was alittle small but still quite cozy. Lynn came up & we did our assignment.. (high class students lol) Zenn also joined us, but she was watching tv herself. Darling came & he helped us with assignmt. Only 30% done.. Today I had my Biz Mgt lesson. I love Allan! He is so funny.. he always make our day. He was sharing with us abt his wife who is only 32 and he is 58! WHAO!! He is kinda proud abt it… the whole class couldn’t stop LOL… thank goodness lesson ended @ 9.30… tired tired tired..
